Are you obsessed?

haha i read this article from Teenage Mag Feb 2006 (freebie from the exam pack given out by NUSSU) which i find it quite interesting

"Love is caring, nurturing, mutually supporting and giving. It is focused on the needs of the beloved. Obsession is self-centred, ferocious and cruel. It happens when you cannot function as a person on a daily basis without thinking of your object of affection."

You are obsessed if you...
- only want to be with him/her
- are not doing anything without him/her
- are changing your class or daily schedule to be with him/her
- are changing yourself to be more like her
- want him/her to only do things with you or spend time with you
- feel depressed when you cannot be with him/her
- hear friends and family point out that you are too wrapped up in him/her
- feel you would die without him/her
- hear him/her say he/she feels smothered by you
- let him/her be abusive towards you

"When the other person becomes the centre of your universe and everything within your life revolves around him/her, you have an obsession. When you are unable to work, take care of yourself or perform normal daily activities because your mind is constantly on the other person, you have an obsession. Another form of obsession is refusing to accept that a past relationship is over."

So...are you obsessed?